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do not be late
There are some events that are simply out of our control and we all know it. Traffic can be the problem, even if you have given yourself plenty of time. Work may be responsible for keeping you longer than expected and causing you to be late for your appointment. Life can get in the way of the best plans. If this happens to you, call your date and tell him that you will be late for unavoidable reasons and let him know exactly when you will meet him. Ladies, there’s nothing worse than assuming he’ll understand why you’re late. If you’re going to be late, call him.
grand entrance
You have 5-7 seconds to make a good impression, so make it a good and lasting one. When you enter a restaurant, be sure to stop at the entrance and check the room. Make sure your posture is upright; Standing upright he is with his head held high. If you don’t see his date or he doesn’t approach you, you should go up to the maitre d’ and ask if his date arrived and sat down. I don’t think men should be seated before their date arrives. If your date is sitting at the table when you get there, here’s what to do. Pause at the dining room door, then continue following the hostess to her table. My attitude is that if he wants to see you walk around and see how beautiful you look, by all means let him.
bar practice
When you meet at a bar, there are problems because you can’t make reservations to sit at the bar and you may not know who you’re meeting. When you arrive on your own, be sure to scan the room for your date. If you don’t see it, get your bearings and go ahead and sit down. This blind date scene gives you a real chance to get closer to any cute guy you see. Ask him if he is so-and-so, your date for the night. If he says yes, bingo. If not, practice with him until your date arrives. There is nothing wrong with talking to other guys before your date arrives. One advantage is that if your date sees you talking to another guy, he’ll be more intrigued with you and won’t be late again.
Hello
Once you finally come face to face with him, what’s the first thing you do? That’s right, SMILE. I’m sure you already know. Do you shake hands? Do you give him a kiss on the cheek? do you hug him? You have to determine that by the gut reaction he has, combined with the natural way he expresses himself. If you see him and melt, then of course a quick peck on the cheek is fine. Shaking hands is too formal, but if you don’t want to kiss him on the cheek, you can take his hand and touch his forearm with your other hand as you greet him and look into his eyes.
He’s in charge
The ladies I meet are confident, successful women who are used to taking complete care of themselves. Sometimes they forget to allow a man to open a door for them, or take control when they arrive at a restaurant. There is nothing more disgusting to a man than a woman walking past him through a door, or approaching the reservations desk, or ordering a bottle of wine without consulting him. Ladies, let him open the door for you and come to the table and order the wine. He won’t kill you and make him feel like a man. When you’re out on a date, he lets your femininity shine through.
wrestling without a date
A first date should be fun; it should be light and non-controversial. He is probably saying how opinionated he is, how dynamic and how smart he is. We know. Most men don’t want to discuss politics on the first date. If you’re thinking to yourself that on the first date, that you don’t want to suppress your intelligence on the first date, that’s normal. No one is asking you to hold back and act like a person you are not. Men want women who understand current events; They just want to go on a date with you and not in the boardroom. Men say they appreciate witty banter, humor, and an interesting discussion, but don’t make a big case about global warming on your first date. Lastly, don’t clutter him up with your own talk and opinions.
To be interesting
Show genuine interest in what he is talking about. Even if you don’t agree with an idea he expressed, you’re not curious about the NBA playoffs or deep sea fishing, if he’s talking about it, that means he’s interested and sharing it with you. Take it as a compliment and just listen to what he says and answer me accordingly. You would want the same consideration if it were you.
who country
In the early stages of dating, a man should take you out and pay. However, if you ask him out, you must pay. Don’t expect me to foot the bill when you’ve planned to dine at a fancy, expensive, fancy new restaurant. However, I think it’s a bad indication when you’re on the first date or the second date; he wants to go dutch or even wants you to pay for the night. If a man has treated you several times, it’s time you treat him to a wonderful meal, a show, or a new movie.
don’t talk about this
No doubt some personal topics will be discussed on a first date, such as hobbies or vacation spots, but there are some topics that you should avoid altogether. They are: ex(es), problems with your children, your pets, bad breakups or past relationships, money, illnesses, bad habits or other peccadilloes that it is better to leave at home. This is a date, not a therapy session. The only personal thing that needs to be mentioned is whether or not you have children. This is just to let him know that you have other people who need you. But as I mentioned before, don’t talk about fights with your teens or other issues that could be perceived as a troubled relationship with your offspring—it’s a turnoff.
easy ladies
Similarly, don’t question him about details of his life. Do not question him about his job, money, why he is not married or how many women he has slept with. Ask questions that highlight their interests and try to find a topic that you both enjoy discussing.
forwarding conversation
The number one complaint I hear from women is that a man can spend an entire afternoon talking about himself. I have asked many men about this tendency and they reason for it as follows:
The woman didn’t say anything and he felt the need to fill the gap in the conversation.
– The woman really wanted him to talk.
– He was nervous, and when he’s nervous, he talks.
Ask yourself, does it irritate you that I talk so much because you just don’t have chemistry? And if you really liked him, would it matter how much he talked about himself? The good news is that you can change the conversation. Insert something about the topic you are discussing; and make sure it’s not something about either of you. If he just won’t let you say a word, you could try apologizing for a moment. Go to the powder room and come back with a new topic of discussion. You really have to wait until date number two to know for sure what’s behind it.