I don’t know about you, but I don’t think flirting should be difficult at all. I don’t think it’s meant to be a challenge. On the contrary, I think flirting is meant to be FUN! And it CAN be fun for you, too, especially if you try these 5 easy flirting tips on your next date.

Flirting Tip #1 – Say “I hate you.”

Most men, even the best of them, go on first dates expecting a woman to be polite, pleasant, and friendly. But when you suddenly tell her “I hate you” with a smile, especially after she says something selfish or after she makes fun of you, she will drive him crazy, in a good way of course!

When you say “I hate you” with a smile, it will leave him wondering, “Wow, did he really mean that or is he making fun of me?” He puts you in control, makes you feel relaxed, and creates an instant family bond with him all at the same time.

Flirting Tip #2: Wink.

It’s a sad fact in the dating game, but hardly anyone wins anymore. There was a time when winning was a pleasurable gesture that instantly conveyed a flirtatious, naughty and fun message, even without saying a word. But guess that? That’s what makes it so unexpected when you wear it today!

When you beat a guy today, he will NOT see it coming! But the message is there: you’re kidding, you’re flirting, and you’re in control. And if he’s man enough, he’s gonna play your game!

Flirting Tip #3: Mimic his moves.

Try this on your next date: When she rests her head on her hand, do the same. If he crosses his legs, cross yours too. And if he takes a sip of coffee, he takes a sip of your own drink too. The idea is to mimic his movements a few seconds AFTER he makes them.

Now why am I asking you to mirror his movements?

Just this little scientific fact. Studies have shown that men react more favorably to women who move the same way they do. And guess what? It’s all unconscious: he won’t even realize you’re mimicking his moves! But he’ll pick it up subconsciously anyway, and you’ll end up liking him more.

Flirting Tip #4 – Implied Sex.

Let’s face it, even on the first date, he’s going to entertain the idea of ​​having sex with you in the future. He will wonder if there will be something “playful” with you in the future. That’s why when you hint at the idea of ​​sex, even innocently, it will make him MORE interested in you!

However, you shouldn’t talk directly about sex, as that will only give him the wrong idea about you. Instead, get creative! For example, if you’re walking through the mall and you pass the lingerie section, point to a sexy item and say “That’s CUTE!” Trust me, those two words will put all kinds of ideas in your mind!

Flirting Tip #5: Tell him to do his worst!

This last tip is best saved for the last part of any date, when it asks for your contact information. Now, women are usually hesitant to give their numbers (they have no feelings for him), or they give their numbers too eagerly (they are needy and desperate). Either way, it’s not a good impression on him!

Instead, write down your contact information, give it to him, and tell him to “do your worst!” She instantly tells him that you feel comfortable with him, and that you are one of the few women who is actually WORTH being with.

Now get out there and FLIRT!

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