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1. Approach the man you find attractive at the bar. Sit next to him and ask him to give you a pen. If he doesn’t have one, ask him to find one. When I give you a pen, write on a napkin: “I think you’re cute. Can you handle a girl who can dance better than you?” Whether you know it or not, you’ve broken the ice and he will find his creativity refreshing.
2. Dance within the line of a handsome boy’s site and acknowledge him every now and then with a seductive smile that lets him know that you are definitely interested in chatting with him.
3. Gently spray the man you want on your way to a drink at the bar. If you get her attention, tell her that she looks good and that you are looking forward to seeing what she can do on the dance floor.
4. While sitting next to the man you fancy, have a drink on the rocks and then scoop out the ice cube and rub it over your chest and breasts while complaining of being too hot.
5. Put your hand on his shoulder as you ask him if he cares if he uses his big shoulders for support. Men are pleasantly surprised when women do something unexpected to them like this.
6. Never underestimate the power of a suggestive smile from the other side of the bar. Even if you don’t feel like dancing, you can lean on the bar, sip your drink, smile, and let your eyes let him know that you love him.
7. Ask him if you can ask him to drink. It works the same way when a man offers you a drink. The difference is that it gives her the impression that you are not one of those women who hang out in the clubs looking for men to buy them drinks.
8. Make eye contact early in the evening and then walk behind him later and whisper something provocative in his ear.
9. Let your girlfriend play messenger to add some fun to your evening. You are your girlfriend to approach him and tell him that you think he is cute and that you were wondering if he would like to accompany him.
10. Have a waiter or waitress find out what you like to drink and send it to you. Most men take this gesture as a sign that you find them attractive and that you would like to chat.