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This is free but simple advice for all single men who are afraid of getting married. I’m going to show you that being a married man doesn’t mean you have to give up your freedom or make those arduous sacrifices you’ve been dreading. There is a way to get the best of both worlds. How can you do that? I will tell you the secret.
I assume you are a worker. Find a good girl, morally upright, preferably middle class. Bathe her carefully (this won’t take as long as you think). All you need to do is make a few strategically placed calls early in the morning and late at night. Don’t worry if you don’t have time to see her often, just let her know how busy you are, but set aside time to see her at least once a month when she becomes Mr. Romantic with candlelight dinners, take her to the movies, give her gifts, compliment her and yes, you can give her lots of hugs. However, watch out for the intimacy movement. She will run away if you don’t take it easy. After three months of this, profess your undying love for the girl. In other words, ask her to be your wife.
Getting married is as easy as anything else. All you have to do is propose. Once you do, your future wife and her family will do all the work and planning. To save yourself unnecessary stress, accept their demands. Your bride-to-be should also be working so that she can make her own contributions to the wedding. Don’t be too stingy in your contributions; remember you are making an investment, but try to keep your money as much as you can.
After the usually happy honeymoon, real life begins. Now you start to be afraid. Now you have responsibilities. You have to be home at a certain time. You have to start giving your money and so on. Purpose freight no. A method has been devised to save her singleness.
As a worker, work comes first. Leave early to work every morning; don’t hang around the house. When I say early, I mean early. In addition to ensuring that your boss is satisfied with your punctuality, it will prevent you from doing unnecessary tasks around the house such as leaving the children at school, helping your wife with the dishes or breakfast, cleaning or anything else for your spouse. I want you to do it before going to work in the morning. If you are afraid of not getting enough sleep, I can tell you it is worth it. You can sleep for a few minutes in your office before the day begins. Now if your wife is a good girl (like the one I asked you to choose), then you can be sure those tasks would get done too even if she has to go to work too. (She must work too; remember that she does not want a liability.) In fact, a good wife won’t want you to go to work hungry, so she wouldn’t mind getting up earlier to make sure she brings a good home cooked meal to work. Make sure you appreciate her with a kiss before you leave in the morning so that she continues to do so.
Another problem is that, as a married man, he has to come home early or so his wife hopes. But you don’t have to do that. It can be a bit tricky if you are not the type who knows how to register. What I mean by signing up is that if you want to stay out late (which you should do if you are a virile young man who wants to enjoy life), then call your wife ahead of time. Tell him how the day is going to be; You already know of meetings and meetings that will probably drag on for her to be prepared. I think when you’re about to get married, you didn’t make the mistake of telling your old friends that you weren’t on the dating circuit anymore. Even if it did, there is little difference these days. Many of them will stick with you if they think you still know how to have a good time. Then go out to the city. Your wife won’t be too upset because you’ve already informed her beforehand. And then don’t be silly getting drunk. Just drink enough to feel a ‘buzz’ and be sensitive enough to stop after that. So never save your friends’ messages, delete them as soon as you read them. Too many men have made that mistake. Don’t make friends with women your wife knows or may get to know. Avoid things like lipstick stains on your shirt or the smell of another woman’s perfume on your body. If necessary, shower before going home. These are just a few precautions. So don’t use the excuse of late meetings all the time (it’s a lame excuse), so get creative. ‘Go’ for conferences, retreats, training sessions, etc. So, to keep your wife believing you, make sure you get home before midnight and then pick a day of the week before 10 p.m. Now if you live in Lagos, you know you can blame the traffic for everything.
What about money problems? Here too it is a bit tricky. In the first few months of marriage, be generous (you know how you behave when you meet a girl for the first time) and then tell her that you want to invest your money and that she will be tied up for a while. He will believe you more easily because you have been generous in the past. Let him know that you need his help to meet the family’s basic needs while investing in the family’s future. Don’t forget an important way to keep her happy. The monthly indulgence (you know when you become Mr. Romantic). Keep running at least once a month. Take her out, do something special for her, stay tuned for just one night. Many women can live on less, and your wife will be glad that you worry so much.
A major problem is that your wife may be insightful (as are most women) and may feel that not everything is what it seems. An easy way to avoid this is to put words correctly (like golden apples in silver settings). Each player knows the right words to say to a woman. Cheer her up; Be gentle even when you can handle it. Always stay in touch when you are away from home. Go to some functions with her from time to time. Try to remember birthdays. That’s what your phone alarms are designed for.
If you play well, you will have a woman dedicated to all your needs, who will take care of the house, take care of the children and even pay the bills while you still have time to go out with your friends and enjoy. your youth. It will even be your bed partner whenever you want.
However, there is a major flaw in my well thought out plan. If you love your wife; then my advice won’t do you any good.