This article is more about the proper execution of your power of influence over your children. The title just sounds terrible, aside from the fact that it’s solid as far as relevance is concerned, it’s still misleading. Describes an insider’s point of view that helps you learn how parents can still be great while discouraging naughtiness. Consciousness and attitude are TEA tips for being square without looking like an uncool jerk in front of your kids.

Just be very aware of the natural limits that life imposes on us and be positive within those limits. For example, you are the father and always will be. sometimes you can become What a friend (and you’re their friend too), but they need a father more, so keep being the father.

Not to forget a recent bumper sticker that really hit the mark on this particular subject. The phrase says; “It was uncool before it was cool, it was cool.” It seems appropriate here. The key to truly influencing her children is to STOP trying. If you’re trying to do being good aspect great, always ends up looking a bit silly. Not unlike the title of this article. You can’t be trying and you certainly can’t look like you’re trying.

Less is more. It has to come naturally. These days being good is better than being stupid, unlike ten years ago. Each and every one of our ‘next generations’ gets a little smarter because we’re getting a little better at leading them.

Here are the best tips to be honest when discouraging disobedience in my opinion.

Practice the preparation. Recognize and learn all the different stages of conflict so you know what to expect. Always be prepared and expect the worst possible scenario that may arise from any given situation. Then work from there. This can help you to be more methodical and active in preventing future problems. Maintain an emotional difference whenever possible.

Pay close attention to your own feelings. This can be difficult at times. Let’s face it, it’s not always easy to see ourselves as we really are or become aware of how we feel at any given moment. We are in the moment. The only answer to this is hindsight.

Reflecting on the things that just happened and trying to improve them next time will be your only guide to this. So, whenever possible, grab a pen and paper and write down how you felt during any given situation. Taking notes of how you think you could have done better and how and what caused your emotions to get the better of you will be really key here.

Another key is not to go too far back with this. You are starting this, so keep it closer to now. Something from your past, but the more recent the better. Write down as many feelings you have been through as possible.

Lead by your own actions. The old adage actions speak louder than words has never meant more than in this example. Parenting by example is the surest and most pronounced way to influence your children. The only way to be sure is to be real, not pretend. It works beyond belief and with much less effort.

Your children love you even more than you think. They secretly admire you, regardless of your hidden insecurities. We are all hard on ourselves and often forget that our hidden insecurities are hidden. Just know who you really are and you shouldn’t have a problem. It’s when you try to be everything all the time that many parents end up in a mess.

Be direct. You wouldn’t believe how much it can work to be completely honest. Being up front saves a lot of trouble and wasted time. Being frank can be a lot of fun for a child. Be honest even when you expect it to be unproductive, and you’ll be surprised. As long as you present things in the right light, they can seem magical to a young child. Especially our own impressionable toddler.

Be patient and be positive. If you can be carefree and consciously act naturally, you can effectively influence them to reach the appropriate stage of adulthood. It has to be completely natural and act like it’s something you shouldn’t need to know or follow. It’s kind of like reverse psychology but with a certain subtlety. At first it may seem like a bit of a contradiction, but it’s actually not so much a contradiction as a change in attitude.

Always remember to have a little fun. Such is life and it is meant to be lived, through thick and thin. When you are with your child, cherish those moments. If you have fun in mind, you better be able to create some memorable moments together.

Remember that attitude is everything and it must be positive. Great parents are always the ones who try to understand even when they can’t. So let them be themselves as long as you don’t see any harm in it.

Show a little confidence. Children need to know that you believe in them, and they need to be reminded of it most of the time. Constant confirmations that you believe in them will help them build trust and esteem. This will help them feel better about themselves and about following your advice. They will also come to you more often when they have problems if you can show them that you trust them.

Parenting can be a healthy combination of proper attitude and presentation. The approach is mainly the deciding factor of whether or not you communicate with your children. You must learn from your children by being open and aware of what works and what doesn’t.

Again, the most important thing to keep in mind here is to never try to be something you are not. It is just as important to be yourself as it is to let them be themselves. Keeping these two principles, Attitude Y Conscience in mind and constantly seeking to improve as a parent will keep you calm, collected and collected most of the time.

A lot of this is very challenging stuff and it’s a process that certainly won’t happen overnight. There is much more information available to help you follow these tips to get your desired result. This process is endless and is always in motion. The constant learning that will help you in the relationship with your child is, and always should be; A happy task.

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